SERVICES

ENM and Polyamory

Exploring non-monogamy or polyamory can be exciting, liberating, and deeply affirming, but it also comes with unique challenges. I’ve spent years living in and working with non-monogamous communities, and I know firsthand that navigating nontraditional relationship dynamics means creating your own blueprint.

Choosing non-monogamy means you’re often swimming against the current of a culture that only validates monogamy. That can bring up old shame or trauma responses, even when your values, lived experiences, or orientation align with ENM or polyamory. In our work together, you’ll find a judgment-free space to untangle those old messages and create sustainable, secure, and fulfilling connections on your own terms.

Sex therapy

For as long as I can remember, I’ve been fascinated by the way human sexuality shapes us, challenges us, and connects us. Sex and intimacy should feel safe, joyful, and true to you. But for many people, these experiences have been clouded by shame or trauma.

In our work together, I offer a sex-positive, queer-affirming space where no topic is taboo or off-limits. Whether you’re exploring sexuality or orientation, seeking kink, navigating multi-partner dynamics, healing from trauma, exploring your body, or reshaping beliefs about sex, I’ll help you experience more ease and expansion in intimacy.

Couple's Therapy

Every relationship carries its own story, struggles, and possibilities. Sometimes it feels like you’re stuck in the same cycles, no matter how much you love each other. I work with couples of all kinds break patterns of conflict, find their way out of survival mode, and create communication that feels responsive instead of reactive.

I’ve walked alongside couples grieving miscarriages and loss, partners who rebuilt trust after infidelity, people who separated and found their way back to each other, and couples who needed clarity to lovingly part ways. No matter where your path is taking you, I’ll help you move forward with clarity, compassion, and strength.

Consultations

I offer consultations for clinicians, organizations, and community members seeking affirming, nonjudgmental insight into ENM, BDSM, kink, fetish and other alternative dynamics. These sessions are a great space to ask questions, challenge stigma, and gain practical strategies.

Drawing on over a decade of experience, I provide education and support to help you build trauma-informed, sex-positive, and affirming practices.

Guest lectures

I love bringing education and open dialogue about sex, intimacy, and relationships into classrooms, organizations, and community spaces. I’ve spoken at Pepperdine and Cal Poly, led groups on BDSM and lifestyle 101 topics, and been invited onto podcasts to talk about codependency, sexuality, and relationships.

My approach blends deep knowledge with lived experience, because theory only goes so far without real-world context. The lectures I give are honest, accessible, and designed to spark curiosity while breaking down stigma. The goal is always the same: to create conversations that leave people feeling seen, informed, and more connected. If you’re looking for a speaker who brings clarity, warmth, and a sex-positive perspective, let’s start a conversation that matters.